Smoke and mirrors and PA

Dear Reader, Manipulative people can be found in every walk of life. You might meet them at work where they take credit for your achievements, or in social situations where they are controlling, demanding, and even abusive. Once equipped with the terms, it can be easier to see manipulative people for who they really […]

Letter to my beautiful child

Dearest, I wanted to write this to you so that, at some point in your life when you look back at what happened you will be able to read this and know that i cared. I have read various blogs, all of which seem to blame one party or another for not staying in a […]

Sorry Queen, but thank you .

Dear Reader I have always tried to be pro-active in life; trying to deal with situations before they happen, rather than deal with the aftermath. I was driving to work, when I heard a piece of music playing. The words caught my attention, and I proceeded to consider what the track would mean if applied […]

Hindsight is such a precise art-form

The news has been awash with stories of children cast to the dark forces of abuse by persons unknown, and not protected by the very forces such as the police, social workers, and other professionals that should be helping them. They are now being offered support, mental health advice and have all the professional guidance […]